A New Approach to Parenting

The notion that parents should completely eliminate screen time for their children is not only unrealistic but also potentially detrimental. In today’s digital age, it’s essential to find a balance between screen time and other aspects of a child’s life. Rather than feeling guilty about screens, parents can focus on teaching their children to use technology responsibly.

Understanding the Guidelines

The Ministry of Health (MOH) has recently introduced new screen use guidelines, recommending that children under 18 months have no screen time, and children between 18 months and six years have limited screen time, ideally not during meals or bedtime. The guidelines suggest co-viewing content with children and avoiding screens as a “babysitter.”

Not All Screen Time is Bad

While it’s true that excessive screen time can have negative effects on children’s physical health and habits, not all screen time is bad. In fact, some screen time can be beneficial for learning and development. For example:

• Watching educational content together can be a great way to bond and support learning.
• Interactive games and apps can be an excellent way to supplement learning and development.
• Digital books and interactive content can be a fun and engaging way to teach early literacy and other skills.

Great Shows for Young Children

Here are some great shows that are both educational and enjoyable for young children:

1. Mickey Mouse Clubhouse (Age 2+)
2. Khan Academy Kids (Age 2-10)
3. Paw Patrol (Age 2-4)

Using Technology for Learning

Technology can be a powerful tool for learning. From typing and spelling to digital books and interactive games, it offers creative ways to supplement a child’s development. For example:

• The Very Hungry Caterpillar & Friends First Words is a user-friendly digital pop-up book that teaches early literacy, shapes, letters, and more.
• TypingClub is a free tool that teaches proper finger placement and gradually builds up speed and accuracy.

Balance is Key

It’s essential to balance screen time with outdoor play and other activities. Set the example for healthy screen habits by building in regular screen breaks during meals, weekends, or after school. For example:

The PropNex Family Zone at Gardens by the Bay is a must-visit. This 2,000 sq m pet-friendly playground features two 9m-tall towers, a sandpit with light projections at night, musical play areas, and even a communal gardening space. Designed with inclusive play in mind, it offers challenges and fun for all abilities.

Screens are a Smart Tool

Let’s be honest, screens are a part of our daily lives, and it’s not always practical to avoid them. Rather than resisting it and burning out, maybe it’s time to embrace screens mindfully. Use technology to support your child’s learning and development, and when needed, to keep them safely occupied.

A Balanced Mindset

Rather than resisting the “no screen” fantasy, shift away from it and toward a balanced mindset. Use technology to support your child’s learning and development, and when needed, to keep them safely occupied. Let’s stop beating ourselves up. Screens don’t have to be the enemy. Used wisely, they can be an ally-for both parent and child.